May 25, 2024

Venturing into the Desert: Versatile Cold Approach Experiment

My daygame have been quite rigid since I've started in 2020. I've been approaching girls only during sessions and in specific venues or routes. 

But I've come to realize that such way of doing daygame limits my opportunities of meeting infinate number of beautiful women everywhere else, in shops, gas stations, cafes, trains, etc.

So, I've decided to change this and do cold approaching in a spontaneous fashion.

But that means I have to be prepared for cold approaching at all time, and to be in that state I must:

 - Dress my best every time I leave my house, even for short errands
 - Have a structure or model for approaching girls when direct game not suitable (e.g. a quite library)
 - Learn how to deal with the anxiety of making unplanned approaches
 - Have a schedule for doing only spantanous (outside venue / route) approaches, e.g. Saturday & Sunday all spontaneous approaches
- Have days where I will only be doing daygame experiments e.g. 2-4 days a month

Lack of model or structure: the biggest challenges to address in versatile cold approach

Scenario 1:

Imagine sitting in a dental clinic and a hot chick comes to you, smiles and asks if the seat next to you is empty. You say yes and she sits. Her smells so good! She crosses her legs and exposes her beautiful smooth thights. She reaches out to her purse, grab a lipstick a mirror and does what a women would do in such scenario.

Your heart beating faster than an F1 engine. You wanna talk to her, but then you only know how to do it in LDM style, which needless to say, not the right tool in this case.

Scenario 2:

You are in a bookstore, browsing poetry books, a girl passes by you carrying a book you recognize, she stops next to you, picks up another book: "Burning in Water Drowning in Flame" - by Charles Bukowski.

What should you do in those two scenarios that is (1) approperiate? and that will (2) maximize your chances of attracting her sexually or at projecting yourself as an interesting person?

I can answer the first question, but the 2nd is pretty much an uncharted territory for me. 

But I'm detemines to find or figure out an effective framework or model for talking to women everywhere.

The model should answer the following questions:

  - How to curb nerviousness from approaching without the comfort of the (familiar) LDM

  - How to open girls in unplanned random situations where LDM not suitable? e.g how to get her full attention

  - How to project my sexual intent to a girl non-verbally when using words is not approperiate

Will experiment with those on the weekends and report back.





April 27, 2024

Bukit Bintang weekend stay & field report

I've been doing most of my weekend daygame sessions in KL due to the high volume of quality targets. But the problem I'm facing is that... I start my day quite slowly.

I wake up around 8 am, super sluggish. It takes me 1-2 cups of coffee to come to life, and I find myself watching random stuff on YT and only leave my house 4-5 hours later.

I don't like that. So I decided to leave my house earlier on weekends. I thought it's a good idea if I stay the night closer to where I game, perhaps in a place that is not as comfortable as my house so I'm forced to go out as soon as I freshen up.

So I booked a place in Bukit Bintang (which is closer to many large malls) this Saturday.

A cheap hostel (RM 24), needless to say, it was a shitty place, and I had to check out earlier due to not being able to sleep at night, thanks to faulty AC and a crazy Arab guy staying below my bunk bed who was complaining about every noise and movement, e.g. random phone ringing in the middle of the night and he opened my curtain "excuse me bradar! can you bleeze make your phone on silence?"

Other than the horrible sweaty night stay, I had a decent daygame session on Saturday:

12 approaches in total.

4 numbers, 3 from very weak sets. And 1 from a hot skinny Botswana girl with long braided hair (an extension) which was the best set of the day.

Texted her today and we agreed to meet next Saturday.

I've also recorded my session (about 6 hours), something that I've been quite lazy to do for a while, but it's time to listen to myself and see how far I came and what to improve (vocally and material-wise).

Apart from infields, I'm currently reading Daygame Nitro by Nick Krauser. A book that I've, surprisingly, never read before. I remember reading Daygame Mastery which was too much theory for me. Nitro seems more straight to the point. A the book that I should've dove into in my early days of pickup when I was as clueless as a goldfish.

Why I'm I ready this book? because, (1) although I practice LDM, my cold approach style is quite different from most other daygamers, and I need to make sure that what makes me unique doesn't derail me from the fundamentals of pickup/seduction, and (2) I don't yet have a full mature structure from approach to sex to build enough confidence on dates, or at least always know what to do next.

It's 2:50 pm now, I just came from the supermarket near my house, where I saw a cute petite girl who was IOIing me as I was waiting for her to check out from the cashier. After finishing, she left the cashier and disappeared. I checked out and exited the mart only to see her coming back from nowhere (she was definitely waiting for me). I let her pass, I followed her, and she kept looking back 3 times and smiling. After exiting the entrance of the mall, she stopped and I approached her. "how come you are not carrying a bag", "you must be very strong carrying those items". She was smiling and was a bit confused and shy. Before she even warmed up, I heard a loud "beep beep" and looked there, there is a big-ass pickup truck waiting by the taxi stop, she rushed and got into the car. Most likely her man (or her brother).

First approach of the day.

It's 2:12pm now (Sunday), and I'm off to another adventure in KL!

Cheers

December 29, 2023

#3 - The Talkative Maniac


Being in the right place at the right time can expose you to pleasant (and sometimes weird) experiences.

That's what happened to me one Friday last September. I finished work and battled with myself over whether I should hit the mall, do some sets, or just call it a day and head home.

I decided to go to the mall.

The first girl I approached was a Chinese expat who turned out to be a master's student. After I got her number, I continued strolling in the mall, then I spotted another girl. She was wearing jean shorts and a crop top T-shirt reading "Alice in Wonderland" while holding a brown jacket (probably due to the cold train).

December 10, 2023

Daygame Lessons from 2023


2023 wasn't quite a productive year in terms of daygaming, but I've learned quite a lot about myself and my daygame skills, and I'm writing about some of what I've discovered or observed.


LESSON 1: Long-term relationships can seriously affect your game progress

November 24, 2023

#2 - The Adorable Chinese

I met May in 2022, back when I was doing a nonstop daily game streak. She was average looking Chinese girl with a very good vibe and and a charming smile that radiated through her mask. 

When I approached her in a mall somewhere in PJ, and told her "she look lovely", she blushed and responded with a friendly "Thank you". Like any of my other sets, we chatted about several things, mainly work and travelling. She told me she was studying in Taiwan for 4 years, and return home last month... 

July 15, 2023

The Daygame Goals That Led Me To Nowhere

I don't know why I didn't get much result in the past year. But one thing I know for sure is that I took the fun out of gaming.

By focusing on the wrong things... numbers, stats, commitments, habits, etc

Thanks to too much indulgence in theory and self-help materials.

April 24, 2023

#1 - IKEA girl (Part II)

She took off her shoes and socks and started looking around curiously. She saw a weighing scale and stood on it "OMG, I lost weight". 

I had few gym equipment at home including a bench press and two dumbbells. She leaned down and grab one of them. I got a very good view of her round ass and massive hips. I came from behind her and placed my hand on her lower back "give it a try. "Ah!" she

April 21, 2023

#1 - IKEA Girl (Part I)

I met Nana* at one of my favorite mall in my area. I've already done few sets that day at another mall, and gotten 2 leads. But why am I gaming in another place? it's a weird habit of mine, every time I get solid 2-3 numbers, I leave the area so I don't run into my leads again, or worse, having them spotting me approaching other girls :D. 

Anyway, I did few sets in the second mall. And as I was walking round, I notice this tall, slightly thin girl. She was wearing black pants and a black rain coat. Like everyone around, she was wearing a mask, so couldn't really assess her facial looks or age. 

September 19, 2021

A Lousy Game is Better than a Thousand Book


"Training is useful. But there is no substitute for experience" - Rosa Klebb 

The line above caught my ears as I was enjoying From Russia With Love while sipping a can of Guinness (ok, I'm craving one now).

I agree with the lady.

I'm not gonna argue about the benefits of

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